Outline - Reasons

2.0 Reasons why old men preferred to marry young women:

2.1 Young women can produce more children.

2.2 Young women’s great physical condition and good behaviours

Secondly, young women’s physical and behaviours is one of the reasons why old men preferred to marry young women. From physical aspect, younger women are more beautiful and stronger. A lot of older women let themselves lose their zest for life, become boring and serious, and lose their youthfulness and radiance. According to Wade (n.d.), “what men desire more than anything in women is youth. That’s just the way that it is”. Young women are more youthful than the old one. Young women tend to be sexier, gorgeous and hotter. Most of old women are out of shape unlike young women which is more vogues.

From behaviour aspect, according to Robert (n.d.), the reasons many older men are more attracted to young women than old women are because of the young woman’s girlishness and playfulness. The older a man gets, the more fascinating this particular quality may become to him. Old men choose to marry women ten or fifteen years younger than themselves instead of women who close to their own age because older women lack these kinds of qualities.

 An element of girlish in a woman’s nature can really captivate men. Girlish usually means that there will be some gentleness, purity, kindness and sweetness about a ladies character. When a woman has this particular attribute, it makes her appear as playful, youthful, light-hearted and innocent. Nearly all older men will admire and desire these sorts of girly attributes.

2.3 Young women can give better sexual satisfaction to old men                           

Another reason why old men preferred to marry young women is young women can give better sexual satisfaction to old men. According to Zussman (n.d., as cited in “Ghairah Seks Di Usia Emas”, 2007), there are different level of sexuality between men and women. For old men, their passion towards sex has never off even their age are increasing. Furthermore, they think 40 years old and above of men age is the time to become young back.  It is not weird if among them are ready to be married again even their age are reaching hundred years old. Differently to the old women, other than worrying about their premenopausal syndrome, their passionate of sex decrease as their age reaching fifty years old. It is because of low production of oestrogens together at once ‘kill’ their desire towards sex. At this age, old women tend to be alone and pay attention to their children.

Old men have a lot of sexual experienced and their passion towards sex has never off. The old men want their sex life get more adventure with his new younger wife because old women easily get tired during sex. This is because of age factor. The older the women, the easier they get tired during sex. B. Berkowitz and S. Berkowitz (2010) explained that some women stating to have a painful intercourse with their husband. For this reason, the women always reject their husband when their husband wants to do sex. Nicholson (1984) states “sex is a more pleasurable activity for men than for women. Whenever the couple decide to have intercourse, it is always the man who is the major beneficiary and the woman who is putting herself out to provide him with enjoyment” (p.146). So, if their wife cannot give the satisfaction of sex, they will find other women. Therefore, young women are better choice because they can perform better in sex and can give more satisfaction to old men compared to old women.